Thursday, January 29, 2009

He's So Good at It!

Nathan turned two on the 12th, and the best way to describe him these days is that he's REALLY good at being two!

Thank goodness for digital cameras, because we'd have wasted an awful lot of film trying to get a good picture out of him. He had NO INTEREST in smiling for ANY picture the night of his birthday. Not even to pose with his presents, which he loved. I guess I'm past freaking out about not getting a cheesy grin. But there will be a lot of explaining written on the page these pictures go on in the scrapbook. Sorry that this looks like he's being booked for some crime.


















He didn't mind showing off some dance moves while daddy was snapping pictures














Then I tried, but still no success.









A new Fire Truck and tractor book from Grandma and Grandpa Evans





An AMAZING blanket for his big boy bed, handmade by Grandma Freeman


All that blanket and STILL no smile!



With all his 2-year old ness just oozing out of him, Nathan is our handsome, shmandsome boy! He loves trucks and planes and trains, but keeps a balance by playing with dolls and letting his sisters paint his nails. "Liz did it" he told his dad when he came into our room with hands and feet painted up the other day. HA!


Here are just a few ways Nathan is a champ at being two:


*Nathan demands hugs and kisses whenever anyone is leaving or when he's going to bed. Sometimes those hugs are accompanied by an emotional, "come back!" if he's not quite ready for whoever is going out the door to leave him.

*One night about 11pm, everyone was in bed, Kurt was on duty and I was very asleep. I was pulled from that deepest part of sleep to this sound that I couldn’t place, but it was loud and not normal. It took a second, but I knew it had to be Nathan when I realized what it was. I came down the stairs to find him on a chair next to the rack where we hang our keys to find him playing with the key to the van. He’d pushed the panic button and had set off the alarm. The horn going off was what had woken me up. He had been in his bed asleep when I went to bed.


*He loves his daddy and somehow knows which fire truck is dad's. All fire trucks are great, but none are greater than daddy's. I don't know how he knows the difference, but he does.


*Nathan has recently started holding up a finger and mimicking the Craig Swapp commercials. "One Call, That's All" he'll say.

*While he started with "no" as his go-to word, he's moved on to "yes" and "cuz" for every answer to every question. He'll also give a sing-song "ooohhh" when it seems that we tell him something he didn't know before. He's got a pretty amazing, "okie dokie!" as well.
*Whoever said that girls are dramatic never had a boy. At least they never had a Nathan. He is the Drama Queen (Kurt would want me to say "King") in our house. He can throw a fit and scream like a girl better than any girl I've seen.

*He knows pretty much all of the girls' no-no words. We hear "stupid" and "dangit" sometimes coming out of this sweet little mouth.

*He is an orange thief. And a banana monger. Oh, and an apple biter.


*He is starting to count and we can get him to 14 on his own, and 23 with a little help.

*He loves to take his vitamin and can very nearly empty the dishwasher by himself. We find things in interesting places sometimes!


*He can't say the letter "f" if it's at the beginning of a word. Instead, he puts an "m" sound there. So "fire fighters" are "mire mighters" and his name is "Nasan Jofef Meeman".


*He loves peanut butter lollypops, which is just a big spoonful of peanut butter. "budder pop pop" is how he asks for those.

*He is starting to talk on the phone, but doesn't understand that nodding and waving aren't the best ways to communicate while having a conversation.

*He has a love/hate relationship with the vacuum. It attacked him once and he hasn't ever completely recovered. As an infant he used to follow me around, crying, while I vacuumed. Now I can sometimes corral him on a couch, and he watches me work around him.


*He is still above the 95th percentile for height and weight at 37.4# and 38-inches.

* He loves to watch the trash guys come every Monday morning.

*He knows how to make, and has made, his own toast (not because we let him!). He's also pulled the hunk of cheese out of the refridge and put it back again, but not before taking bites out of all the edges.


*He found the net for the fish tank one day and went "fishing". When he came walking into the room saying "mish! mish!", we felt the uh-oh. He'd caught a fish! Thankfully, said fish was put gently back into the tank and the net found a new, higher hiding place. Same goes for the fish food.


*He is still yelling, "go go Katie!" at the TV sometimes. We taught him that during the Olympics when the women were swimming.


*He loves his sisters. All four of them.


*The best day he had in church was one high council Sunday. Two "grandpas" were speaking, and he sat as quietly as he ever has. Nathan is a grandpa lover! His own, or honorary ones ~ he is no respector of grandpas.


*He has started saying prayers with our family. He throws his hands up and puts a lot of energy into his amens. "AMEN!"


*We now have special locks on the front and back doors. One morning I got out of the shower to hear the doorbell ringing. I threw on my robe, thinking I'd find Nathan down ringing the door. He'd disappeared from my bathroom just a couple of minutes before. Instead, I found the door wide open and PEOPLE standing there, with a certain little boy in their arms. They'd found him around the corner in the middle of the street (just to clarify, we live on a dead end. While he wasn't necessarily in danger of being hit by a car, the idea of him being that far from the house is obviously not something we want to repeat. Thus the locks.) So there I was in a robe and hair still dripping, quickly saying thank you to these unknown neighbors. He'd undone the lock, the deadbolt AND the lock on the screen to get out the door. Again, thus the new locks up high. Even high enough that he can't get to them by standing on a chair. Which is what happened about a week after we started putting a stick high up in the sliding door.


*His favorite songs are "The Wise Man and the Foolish Man" and "Book of Mormon Stories". These are the opening and closing songs for FHE these days. There is no point in trying to sing anything else.


*He really does have, and has always had, a great internal rhythm. He's been moving to a beat since he was very very small, er, young. He was never small.


*Nathan has proved my theory that one of the biggest differences between girls and boys is that boys cannot or do not keep their feet on the floor. Climbing or bouncing ~ that is their preferred way of getting places.

All-in-all, Nathan is a wonderful addition to our family. Obviously it wouldn't be the same without him. While I don't subscribe to any family being incomplete without a boy, ours has surely been enhanced by his being with us. He is a special person and we're grateful we get to help him grow and teach him the best ways to find joy in his life.

Happy Birthday, Nathan!

Five Months

Emily was five months old on Sunday (the 25th). And, just to be mean, let me tell you that there are now less than 11 months until Christmas.

Our darling is doing great, responding to physical therapy, both from her great therapist Wendy and by the things we do with her here at home.

Even though we aren't seeing any cognitive issues, this shirt made me well up a little when I pulled it out of the box... we definitely want all of that and more for our precious precious.

Thanks to Elizabeth for taking these pictures on Sunday afternoon. Sorry we didn't notice the stream coming out of Emily's nose!










Wednesday, January 28, 2009

No, ONE is Enough

We watched the story on the news yesterday of the woman in California who gave birth to octuplets over the weekend. Last night Kurt was playing with Emily on the floor as that story was on, and I said to her, "Emily, thank you for not being octuplets". Without losing a moment, Kurt said, "thank you for not being twins". Yes, we bow to our friends who have done twins, while feeling our hands are very full with just one..

Here is just a little bit of what Emily's doing these days. Rolling is big stuff!


Monday, January 19, 2009

Eleven Looks Awfully Good

When Elizabeth was five, I remember having a room full of five year olds, and tiring quickly of the snippyness and snappiness and snottiness of all of them. Ugh. A year later, virtually the same group of girls, now six years old were so much fun. What a difference a year makes!

Because of her birthday right after Christmas, we've only had one "friend" party for Kathryn. Everyone is always gone for the holiday of course and we've struggled ourselves to be around to put something together. This year we decided to wait a couple of weeks and have girlfriends come over for the night. Holy cow what a fun group of girls we had here! And they had so much fun. Watching movies and snacking, eventually they took a break to dance and sing:

What else is better to belt out than the tunes of High School Musical!

The girls were so fun to watch and I heard a "that was a great party!" on the way home the next morning. Super Duper.

Dancing Boy

Nathan has always had quite a fun internal rhythm, boogy dancing with the best.

But the other night we finally caught him with his game on:


National Day of Service

More to document while the details are fresh then to "bragpost", I'm writing today. Eventually these pictures will be in the scrapbook and I've started to rely on blogging to keep track of details.

SO!

If you live in our town, maybe you drive by the corner where they sell cows (yes, real ones) and also build trailers across the street, once in a while. It's the corner seeing a whole lot more traffic these days, thanks to the construction detour... those are the best hints I can give.

And if you've driven by anytime in the last week or so, maybe you've noticed a whole bunch of white paper all over the side of the road. We first drove by when it was still in the road, apparently lost by someone who buys paper a ream at a time (we found the wrapper... it was an entire ream).

We decided to make this our project today ~ even taking Mr. Obama up on his idea to make this MLK/Human Rights Day a day of service.


I apologize to Kathryn for not getting a picture of her. She was running circles around everyone else and I'm afraid I missed her completely.

In about fifteen minutes we had made the world a better place
(once a Girl Scout...)

Then we wandered back a little to say hi to the cows we had been listening to while we picked up. Here's Nathan waving hi and bye to them:

This fine lady came right to the fence to say hello.

Well hello there beautiful #77!

Nathan was a good helper and about three minutes after we got back in the van, here he was:

Someone suggested we take all the paper to the recycler, rather than throw it in the trash.

Are we green or what!!

There wasn't a bin marked "rubber", but we did find a few extras among the paper. Liz had started to say, "don't take my picture!!". oops.

We finished off our outing with a movie from Redbox

(did you know you can get a FREE rental every Monday? go to their website and they text it to you each week)

Sure hope 'Horton Hears a Who' is a good one!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

I Reserve the Right ~ a Mom's Prerogative

Before Nathan was born I, with a lot of time on my hands, planned his first two birthdays' themes. I am a girl who likes to run with a theme! (I can hear you smiling ~ those who already knew this)




His first birthday was all about Zoo Pals ~ I bought plates and cups and cutlery WAY WAY WAY before I needed them. And we had a great time.



For his second birthday, I decided on Backyardigans. Before he was even born, I'd bought the cake pan, the cupcake papers. I even have a plate/bowl/silverware set that has Austin, Tasha, Pablo & Tyrone and Uniqua on it. Boy I love that show and knew my dear baby boy would too.

Two years later and thanks to our cable-less and satellite-less state for most of that time, Nathan has never even seen the Backyardigans. sigh. Never seen them sing "VIKINGS SAY 'YARGH'"! or go sailing over the dessert or sing "Hey we're your friends, the Backyardigans". While there are certainly worse things, Nathan has lived a Backyardigan-less life so far.

But I have had the theme PLANNED for so long, I couldn't wrap my mind around doing anything differently. After all, there'd be a cake and a party. Would he really care that much if he didn't recognize the character on his cake?

Pablo, meet Elmo. Elmo, Pablo. Pablo, Elmo.

Nathan LOVES Elmo. His favorite movie is "Elmo Visits the Firehouse". It's the only one he'll actually watch. He got an Elmo stretchy doll for Christmas and it stays close to him always. Our days are filled with Elmo. Elmo. Elmo. Elmo makes Nathan happy.

For the record, I'd like to provide proof that I made my planned Backyardigans cake:


As this cake cooled, I started working on other cakes I was making for my Achievement Days girls. These cakes were to have roses on them, and as I was getting things out I broke my flower scissors. With no way to lift flowers off their paper, there'd be no way to get them on the cake. An emergency run to Michael's took place. It was 8:30 and they closed at 9.

I know my way around the cake aisle. I LOVE the decorating supplies. But I was in a hurry. I grabbed the scissors I needed just in time to see
THE PAN
The pan I knew would make my boy happy.
My head started to have a conversation

Side A: HE HAS TO HAVE AN ELMO CAKE.
Side B: but you've already made his Pablo cake.
Side A: Nathan loves Elmo.
Side B: then what would you do with the cake you've already made?
Side A: I'll give it away to someone who loves the Backyardigans
Side B: it's kind of expensive.
Side A: I have a 40% off coupon!

As I got back in the van where Kurt and the kids were waiting, he looked at the bulge in my bag and said, "those are awfully big scissors". I took THE PAN out of the bag and handed it to Nathan. The look on his face told me I'd made the right decision. Oh the joy! He was cuter and sweeter and more excited about Elmo than even I had expected. My boy was HAPPY.

We had to stop at the store to get another cake mix. My love for my son and his happiness knew no limits Saturday night.

Soon Elmo took shape. He looked very Elmo-y. Elmo-esque. Elmo-like. That made ME happy.



Nathan had been playing and didn't see his cake until it was done. Kurt brought him into the kitchen and he recognized who was on his cake from across the room. ELMO! ELMO! ELMO!





Party a success. Boy happy. Mommy happy.

*anyone want/need a Pablo cake?

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Because They're Growing

If you've had the good fortune to have Barney play in your house, you might be familiar with the song that goes:
Growing! We do it everyday
We're growing while we're sleeping
and even when we play
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
as we blah each day
because I'm growing
and so are you!

Even if it's been years, those masterpieces stick with you!! Anyhow, parts (obviously, since I'm not sure about that middle part there) of this song were rolling around in my head all day yesterday as I pulled out the newborn and 0-3 month baby clothes to put away. At 27-inches, Emily is nearly into 9-month stuff, but she's too skinny for pants that size as well as some other things. She's still in size 1 diapers (which is UN HEARD OF in our family), but nonetheless there you are.

Kids grow so darn fast in general, though I firmly believe in the statement "the days are long but the years go by so fast". I feel every day of being up to my arm pits in tiny kidness, yet the fact that Liz is starting HIGH SCHOOL next year just tips me over wondering how could that possibly be.

It's not just Emily who is growing ~ Melissa got a new pair of shoes earlier in the week (thanks to her not-so-stellar Wal-Marties blowing out on her....learned our lesson there!). And now I know why her socks (that are kid socks) don't seem to fit her right.... We bought her a women's size 6 1/2! This after Kathryn's shoe shopping for her birthday yielded the men's size 9....

What is UP with these people?!?

Kathryn is already 5' 2 1/2", and Elizabeth is so proud to only have about two inches to go until she is as tall as I am. That would make her 5' 8". She loves to look me in the eye! Her goal is to hit six feet, and I wouldn't be suprised if she does that.

We see the doctor this week for Nathan's two year old check up, but our unofficial measuring here is that he continues to be a square ~ 38-pounds and 38-inches. He's a good workout! May I just take a sec to express my gratitude for the ABILITY to carry him up the stairs... not so long ago, there was no way.. Now I may not WANT to, but that's totally different from not being ABLE to.

So our kids are growing and not just because Barney says so. How lucky we all are to have kids in our lives, whether as "the mom" or aunt or neighbor or teacher. One of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me was as we were preapring to move from WA. A mom of one of my Girl Scouts stopped me for details of our move and, thanking me for my time as a GS leader, she said "you've been a good influence on my daughter". What a wonderful side-effect of fun years of cookie sales and field trips; art projects and cooking lessons.

Soon it will be time to put the 3-6 months stuff away and eventually Missa will out grow her shoes. Nathan will be taller than any of us and Liz's wish will come true. Kathryn may earn a sports scholarship, be a great pianist or veterinarian. Or all three. How fun to wonder and dream with them and watch them meet their milestones and goals. While it can be emotional, it is a privilege to watch them grow.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The Emily Show


Emily saw the doctor last week and we were given the go ahead to start on rice cereal. She is a champ! She opens her mouth and sucks down the cereal ~ with very little coming back out. It's like she knows what she's doing already. She took to nursing so well...I remember thinking I just needed to get out of her way and let her do what she seemed to already know.


Our trip to the Pediatrician went great last Monday. We learned that Emily, at 27-inches, is above the 95th percentile for length. However at 12-pounds even, she's below the 25th for her weight. She eats well and sleeps well so we aren't concerned that she isn't getting enough. But, the doctor did want her to start the cereal to see if we could bulk her up some.

Emily turned four months on Christmas Day ~ already! We talked about Christmas with a new baby early in the year... time certainly flies. A year ago today we were just starting to wonder if a baby might be in store for us. We had no idea!

Today was Emily's appointment with the specialists who came to evaluate her muscle tone. She hasn't progressed like our other kids did in putting weight on her legs and holding up her head, and after mentioning some concern at our 2-month check up, our Pediatrician recommended we be seen. We were impressed with how thorough they were and are really glad to have finally met with them.

We've learned that Emily does in fact have a low tone to her muscles. With that diagnosis we've been given muscle stimulating and muscle building exercises to help her catch up. They are easy things that we'll be able to do while we're holding or playing with her. Things like rubbing her feet and putting pressure on other big muscle groups. These kinds of activities will stimulate her muscles and tell her brain to fire them more often, helping them to grow.

We'll see a Developmental Specialist monthly for the next year, as well as a Physical Therapist as it might be necessary. They come to our house, which is wonderful. This program is run by the state, though our insurance will pay what it will. It is otherwise free to us.


During the evaluation Emily just talked and talked and TALKED to both of the ladies that came. They were quite enamored and complimentary of her social personality. Any setbacks she may have are physical and not intellectual. They are things she will outgrow with our help. I got a little clip of Emily talking tonight. Multiply this by about an hour and you'll get what we had this afternoon, and what we hear often around here. She is such a doll.
So we're glad to be moving forward with knowledge and some perspective. Early intervention is a step in the right direction and such a blessing!